Today i was awaken by a event.Its a friend of mine who had a very controlling boyfriend.or should i say over-caring maybe?i wont blame the guy or the girl either..no one is wrong.
The guy are like that because he over-cared for his love ones..afraid that she might be lied,tricked or cheated.But he never knew that his girl are far more better and independent than that.Its not that she don't love him,She LOVE him and i can see that.I just feel sad for them as i understand what is the guy going through now.Hes afraid of the change of hearts by her i guess,jealousy. frustration.not letting her mix with guys,or joining them for any events.I feel so Shamed yet i cant do a thing as i don't want to butt in other people's business.
What i wanna say here is..will i be the same in the future?im not anything like it now but will i be?i dont know.im not sure but im very worried and scared.Usually this happens on a long relationship.Oh well here i am again..worrying over unnecessary things again LoL...BUt lets be honest.this is a real turn off for any relationship.i believe that before u want to judge what your love ones did or done.loook and ask yourself!how come i did this and she cant do it too?how come i did that and she cant do that as well?why?i can mix with girls but why she cant go out with boys?I always think that these few question will really make a lot of sense.Am i correct?whatever it is i believe that giving freedom to each other is the best.If a couple cant even trust each other then why couple?might as well be friends then.Hmm i hope what i write here will really help those who are in the same trouble =)
Anyway for myself..hopefully in the future i wont treat her like that and i will only treat her as what i am now :)..God Bless all of us
This is me as in Today =)
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